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If you’re looking for a fight, look elsewhere… Fighting takes energy…unproductive energy, I have no need to spend…  Your energy should be focused on empathy, happiness and creativity…  See the beauty in silence…  See the beauty inside you…  VGM

Don’t be a bagger… Desperation makes you predictable… Deflection, aggression and jealousy are desperations too… Bagger may receive pity not love…  VGM

Except the fact, maybe no one has the same work ethics as you do.   You have to believe they are doing their best. To keep your sanity you must let things take its course. Would is not perfect. No one is perfect.  You have your own corks other people have to deal with…  VGM  

I will find the time tomorrow… Today is too busy, too hard… Tomorrow is going to be better…  No… Your moment is now…Take the time to breathe…  VGM

Любви немного, мало веры… Свободы ветреный сезон… Я ухожу дождливым сквером… Предвидя новый горизонт…  В смешеньи чувств и откровений  Я отстраняюсь от всего,  Что на пути моих стремлений  Тревожит душу так легко…  Глоток свободы в каждом шаге  Вдыхаю я в потоке дней…  И радость собственной отваге,  Меня бодрит идти смелей… Дороги наши так похожи…  Лишь отголосок двух прохожих…  VGM

Gypsy fortune teller told me once- “ you let it go too easy “…   Yes, I know…) Think about it…  If something never belonged to you, why fight to keep it?…  VGM  

Ones upon a time, lived fluffy rabbit… He loved his little hole in the ground, he called home…  The rabbit was sweet and cheery, though, little scared of the world around him… But he made his way through life by making friends… a lot of friends… He made so many friends… He lost count…  The only sadness little rabbit had in his life was when the holidays came…  Little rabbit was always alone for holidays… VGM 

Сказка про белого бычка или Ивана-дурочка. Жила-была такая себе бабенка... Не больно умная, да не глупая... не слишком красивая, да не дурнушка... В общем, жаловаться ей было не на что... Да и унывать и раскисать бабенка не умела... Замужем почти не была, за исключением двух случаев, которые оба закончились рождением младенца... Первый «случай» всё как-то налево косил...  А второй почему-то решил, что бабенка наша, ну что-то вроде мебели- обзавёлся и используй по назначению- всем задом по всем диванам...  Ан нет! Бабенка то наша быстро смекнула, что    об неё ноги и другие части тела вытирают...  Вот так она и осталась совсем одна с двумя-то детишками... И всё бы было хорошо и посто - не она первая, не она последняя... Вот только оказалась наша бабенка со своими чадами в тридевятом царстве, тридесятом государстве... Вот тут-то наша история и начинается...  Ох и намаялась наша бабенка поначалу, потому-что ничего про страну эту тридесятую не знала... Порой до...

If you like them wickedly smart, why do you treat them like they are stupid…? VGM  

I had a great conversation with the Chat GPT  about gratitude…) Here is a short quote: “Gratitude is not ignoring problems, accepting disrespect, or being thankful for bare minimum behavior. Healthy gratitude coexists with boundaries and honesty”. I couldn’t say it better…) My gratitude is -  waking up with happiness and going to bed with that happiness intact, untouched by others… VGM

Why’s trust so fragile?   Why is your mind always going through the same process once the trust is broken…? You’re working so hard to forgive and forget…. And yet, every time your trust is challenged, it takes you back to the beginning - trying to forgive and forget…  The only way to stop running the same circle is to let go… VGM

I am angry… Sometimes I wish I could be angry for a long while…  But… I believe my anger doesn’t empower me but rather destroys the peace inside… No one…  No one may have this power over me… not even my own anger…  VGM 

What do you do when you feel guilty?   Trying to prove you are not…? overcompensating…? overreaching…? overreacting…? anything, that makes you feel better about yourself…?  What if… you have done nothing wrong???  And if you did - acknowledge it… VGM

The time goes faster and faster every year…  I am not holding on to the past… It doesn’t matter anymore…  I don’t want to miss a minute of now… every moment of my life today…  VGM

I haven’t been writing much lately…  Sometimes silence means more…  Silence lets you hear your own heartbeat… or listen the music of the hearts of others, appreciate their life stories… and understand…  VGM

Pain… How do you deal with it?…   How do you deal with your emotions, your thoughts, your feelings?… Are you able to process the pain without blaming others?… Are you capable of handling it without self destruction?… How do you brake through the circle of darkness?…  The luckiest of us are capable of converting their pain into happiness of the art… into a music of broken heart… into a dance, painting, writing, science… the solitude of a thought that becomes a treasure of the world for eternity…  VGM

Thank you for making a step forward… Thank you for trusting… Thank you for making effort… Thank you for making time… Thank you for taking time… Thank you for every simple moment together… VGM